Lumari, I'm not a psychologist. I am one of the quiet ones who, having leaned on the situation, seems to be similar to the situation of your person. But one of them is quiet, who opined - on the forums, we often write about ourselves in a woman's family.
I will understand your worries and would like to wish that everything went well with you and your son. But what does it mean "safely" to lie down, in other words: who is guilty after all - a transvestite or a transsexual. From your history, you can understand those who love you and your son, and you (accept for you to be afraid of guilt). It means that not everything has been spent out of this. Dali Ve already singsongly read what a transvestite thinks about a transsexual. So, transvestites "play" women, but don't try to change yourself. Zagalom so i є. Ale buvay, scho th transvestites blame the thought of changing to become. The whole thing was with me, on the aphids of depression, caused by the impossibility of realizing. I realized that transvestites could not get through the medical commission. Transsexuals can also be divided into regional and nuclear. And if the nuclear can without options is taken to surgeons, then the regions can be left in a tili, like nature gave them. According to what you wrote about your person, I can assume that he is either a regional transsexual, or a transvestite of a subordinate role, who is living in an oppressed state. It’s hard to judge with a swearing on the vіdstanі in the retelling. On the forums, you can please the region and nuclear transsexuals, who have gone through serious psychological testing ... and the stench of your person is killed by your own good. Ale, it's good, let's say, only for someone else, not for you.
Now about prospects. As I have mercy, and your man still can’t do without surgery (for nuclear ones, either change it, or in a noose - it’s not hot and not a figure of a movie), then separation, unfortunately, is inevitable. Truthfully, while in the new child, the commission will not give permission for the operation. Options for raising a commission є, ale ce pennies. In a word, as if you were walking along a path, you happen to say: be a stranger to you, a friend, or a companion of life (don’t let it sound marvelous, but it’s like that, if you don’t want any registry office to register like that). Adopt close people with him, you have a sleeping child. Virishiti you can only Vi that cholovіk, darlings let your share rule. If you can manage without surgery, then you need to understand: you won’t be a “man” for a classic rose wine. Better for everything, you can play a peasant in public, but you will need a breath if you want to be at home. So you happen to either deprive him of one periodically, or take his wife's side. It will be hard to accept. It's hard. Namely difficult. And if you can do it, then you will be the closest person on the whole planet. Yogo vdyachnist is important to describe in words. Ale, it is especially significant for you that you have a woman in front of you. You didn’t go out for a woman? Have you shown yourself a happy life with a man? Can you endure a new life? Why can you give up a part of your woman's life for you? Why is it easier for you to separate from a person? What cross do you need? Tse nutrition, on yakі zmozhet vіdpovіsti less than Vi and nіhto, krіm you.
Stand apart food about your son. A child can understand and accept such a role. And yet, even in a childish team, problems can be caused, as if it were a fault, as in a new tato - a woman. Children are zhorstok. Difficult to blame if not in the garden, then definitely at school. It means that people will have to find their own wife’s side in the blue ... well, accept until you turn the fates of 15-16. And maybe, and more, fallow in the nature of the child.
Yakshcho You spodіvaєtesya yogo "vііkuvati", tse, svidshe for everything, is unpromising. Transsexualism is related to the birth of the thalamus. Tse do not give up jubilation. Transvestism disputes, no wonder, to alcoholism. Rejoicing is so very important. And the shards are shamelessly bad for the body, they don’t represent alcoholism, they don’t represent wine, then the doctors try to just reconcile the person with the disease. The squads of transvestites can know a little brown among the squads of alcoholics.
In the near future, I will make you stop crying and say all the good things that will make you a man. At the bedside and lipstick wines, it’s not surprising, that same person. I don’t feel like lying before you, shkarpetki on a new chi panchokhi. Try yoga. Separate: if you will be a woman, and if you need to be a man for your sake. Domovtesya, some pennies of wine can be stained on your woman's image. Mind what you are allowed to do, and what you can’t do for you, while the fault is with the woman. If you can, try to be for him not only a retinue, but an older friend, to help create a good image. But do not forget at any time that you are a woman, that you are a woman, and that you look beautiful and would like to take care of yourself as a person. And then - speak to him, listen and speak again. Listen to your feelings. If you understand that you can live together, it will be miraculous. If you want to grow up, then you can make mutual decisions without mutual image. But for now, you know, transvestism and transsexualism of a person - do not always be separated, but in a different way.
P.S. As a sign that you will try to accept yoga, buy tights for you. Abo garna whiteness. And then ... far away you will be. Smile, right?